Well, let's see. I have started keeping a spiral with a log of all of the texts, phone calls etc. I am getting in the middle of the night and during work, so that I can have proof if I need it some day of his constant drama.
My son has started to grumble about going to his dad's. He sees the crazy loud and clear and doesn't like it. This is with NO influence from me. He didn't like having to go two weekends in a row. They will be gone with him a lot the next couple of months due to the holiday schedules and all that.
It's funny how even a 9yo can see straight through the bs.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher