When mine was out looking for condo's near OM. She would tell me about restraunts in the area. Saying Oh you will like this restraunt. I could see you going there over and over. I told her that I did not want to hear these statements as I would never step foot in any of them for any reason.
Be tough on the money talks. Be fair. If your staying in the house with the kids. She needs to pay up.
Good luck.
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