Sandi, I agree with most of what you said above, Especially the difference between a Man and his A versus a W and her A. Very different animals and dealing with them is very different. I believe we just swept mine under the carpet and it was forgotten, but really it never was. Shame on us for not confronting it - even though we did have professional help.
Something that needs to be handled at some point, but not sure now is the time, I need some counsel on that.
Shifting gears, today is a big day as I have me Baptism testimony taped this afternoon. This has been the ultimate LIFE GAL/180 for me and has been the shinning star in an otherwise terrible summer. Finding my Faith has given me the srength, courage and direction to make it through this.
More later....
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ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present