H phoned last night which was nice, one he's not really phoned me before partially because he doesnt have a good mobile signal where he lives, but the nicest thing was he'd come back from his day out, hed brought fish and chips home with him for tea, but he phoned me before eating them to chat!

So I said I really appreciated him phoning me but to go eat his tea before it got cold as Im sure he was hungry and then ring me back or go on MSN. He rang me back several times cos of the bad signal but he said how he had enjoyed the last few days and in particular the afternoon before he went, that was me covering all three of his LL's without even realising.

He said how he thought we were getting on really well, and that perhaps I should come down one sunday, which although I said would be nice I reminded him that I now have a job to go to, some how also I muttered about having boundaries for myself that I wasnt prepared to cross!

So heres the problem, my main boundary I had agreed for me (he doesnt know) is if he signs a new lease for his flat at the end of nov, I was going back to NC! But that was before we started making headway which we are now. I dont want to upset the apple cart by making ultimatums. But I certainly didnt want to go into 2010 living in limboland. And a new lease would take him to Feb next year.

So I suppose for the time being I go with the flow and see where it is taking me?

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!