Last tuesday, I was doing homework with my son, she wants to play rockband with the other two. I noticed she was drunk. Told her to stop playing with the other two, because it was time for the kids to go to bed, and I still needed to study with our other son. She was trying to catch up with them on play time because she was out the last four nights in a row either working or out with friends. So I tried to walk away, she calls me some fulgarities...I stand up to her and tell her she is drunk and this stops tonight. She gets even madder and slaps me in the face. First time in the 19 years we have been together...
I just walk away and try to calm the kids down. Next morning she says that she can't file for divorce. She can't bear to put the kids through any more pain. She says I will have to be the one to do it or we will just have to live this way. Another cowardly act..She starts this whole mess then tells me I have to finish it..
I poured out 5 bottles of wine that she bought in the last week and told her no more drinking in the house. We will see how long that lasts...
We have been congenial to each other the last few days. She has been going out of her way trying to be nice to me. I still just act indifferent to her. I can't give anymore than that.
The weekend has been good. My son's football team won their first playoff game and will be going to the superbowl football game for the area.
Suprisingly, I am still ok through this. Being level headed about the whole thing.
Glad to hear you have been in a good mood lately and your facebook picture is getting great reviews. Nothing wrong in a little shameless self promotion..How has your husband been returning your demeanor? Nice, still saying he wants a divorce?
Hope the weekend is good for you.
take care.
Hope the
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