Grace,
I would say you are EXCELLENT at reframing things! Quite a gift.

When H was living in his apartment and started texting me..he would often say "good night" or "sweet dreams". The girls and I all have noticed that he will randomly just stop texting..kind of odd. It didn't bother me much, it was just weird-like someone walking away while you are still talking.

I think H said ILY more on his own before MLC, but I'm the kind of person who says it alot to H and the girls. H and I both did the 5 Languages of Love test and found that H's primary language is words of affirmation and mine is split between words and physical touch. So I do think alot about words I use towards H, I still acts of service and all those other ways to show love. Sometimes its hard to find words to affirm a MLCer! I guess I need to practice re-framing!

"Wicked" was great! Second time for me, but first for the girls and they really enjoyed it. Gives you a new perspective on the Wizard of Oz backstory. There is a production going in San Francisco-not sure where in CA you live.... I've seen alot of Broadway productions and this is one of my favorites so far.

I, too, love art. Even though I'm now a 'nerdy' pharmacist, my first college degree was in radio, tv and film. Always have been split between art and science:brain is good at science but in my heart I'd rather be doing something with art or being creative. I'll think of you tomorrow and toast the Louvre as well!


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.