New here, this is my story...

[ClingingToHope]

I agree with SpyBunny. Two months isn't much. I've been out six months now. When I first moved out I thought it'd be a quick fix. Instead, my DB counselor and all the reading I've done on these forums have convinced me when you are hit with the "I have no feelings for you anymore" that you are looking at a long, long recovery.

Here's a good book to read -- "I Do Again." It explains how a wife can be in an idealic marriage and yet feel lonely and her love slowly dies or is buried by small slights until she convinces herself she never actually loved her husband.

He's blindsided. They divorce and then seven years later they remarry -- only after lots of anger and prayer.

The last part I can't pin my hopes on, but reading how the marriage fell apart gave me good insight into what my W was saying.