Your H did say one thing that makes sense - It's not you, it's him. He's the one that has to deal with his issues and until he does, he will never be happy. Sandy, try not to make any hasty decisions right now. Take your time in deciding what is best for you and your kids, even if H doesn't want to be a part of that.
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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
