Kudos to you on handling this new baby step. Just don't be surprised if W starts to question her own actions and backs away for awhile.
I'm kinda expecting it. It's that "have no expectations" thing.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement