That's great Ron D and Thank you dday...What seems to get me by is that because of our s, my Ex and I end up with a lot of times we have to see each other (as you guys know) and even though we're not dating, I look forward to those times and have a reason to dress nicer, ect.. In the back of my mind, there's the "to him this stuff might not mean anything for us, just something to do with doing what's best for our s", but it might lead to a better R if that happens. So I go on, one day at a time. I've been building great relationships with a couple of girlfriends (they're both M), but all 3 of us are avid gym members and have fun together when we do go out.
By the way, my Ex asked if I wanted to go to the friends house we went to on Halloween for Thanksgiving because we had all been invited, so that's on : ) And..we have mutual friends (the birthday party we went to a couple months back), who invited us to their house for a Christmas party and my Ex already accepted : )
