Don't give her your philosophy, it will sound ridiculous to your wife. It's not appropiate here.
Don't tell her you believe she has been in conact, you either know or you don't.
Don't reference DR, tell her what you have decided.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
