S4H- It is a beautiful weekend but I will be working most of it, then my mom comes to visit. Should be interesting..maybe I can talk her into moving in with me for while to help pay for rent when H stops paying lease. But I will keep my chin up and work and focus on me! Hope you have a great weekend!

ClingingtoHope~ We only had that talk once. I said I don't have the money to get a lawyer right now and he said we shouldn't need one. Than I said we should just wait til after 1st of year, easier on taxes. (Not sure if it would be or not..but thought why push it)

So now there has been no talk about it. H couldn't even tell me in actual words he wanted a divorce..I asked if we were done and he said " yea probably". Whatever that means! LOL Then after a few more minutes, I said, "so you want a divorce then?" and I got no response. So who knows....I am not going to bring it up again until he does.

I sometimes think would be easier to just be done. move on..but it wouldn't be.

Ill have to visit your sitch to see if I have anything else to add. Just stay strong! Its all we can do right now!