How do you get past the feeling of hopelessness? It has been two weeks since H said he loves and misses the OW#2 and would move back in with her immediately if she asked. Also says he loves me. Obviously, he would choose her over me. I think I'm quickly sinking into depression.


Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother