Spouse Suffering From Depression

[awest1217]

I would say the next time he says something about being miserable have a few solutions ready such as starting to go to counseling, meet with a mentor couple, go on some dates to get to know each other again, on your terms, etc. Maybe showing him you are interested in making it work is what he needs. You are doing fine and remember it may not be LRT, but it may be the timing, with it coming up on a year. If he comes to you more open, then you can give him a few suggestions of where to go from here, and let him choose which one, but make sure YOU are ok with each of the suggestions, then you both are getting what you want. He gets to have his family back, which hey good thing he is finally realizing all he is missing, and you get to keep your self-respect and make sure he is ready to change. Don't go back yet, but at least have some options that could help you guys move to a better place.