If there is a problem at work my H can't ignore it. He could lose a client therefore lose money. At home my H will ignore a problem until it festers so deeply he totally shuts down.
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He even sort of jokes about it... "you know me, ignore it until it goes away or just run".
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The puzzling aspect is he is AWARE of this problem yet does nothing to change it. So any R that he has will eventually fall victim to the same problems we had.
Thanks for sharing that CG. This sounds very similar to my H in many ways. Maybe not much we can do about it, but sometimes it helps just to know someone else understands how frustrating it can be.