Hope,

This is the attitude you have to adopt in order to survive, otherwise you are right- you are going to drive yourself crazy wondering/worrying about what your H is doing.

M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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