Girls just called on W's cellphone. W took them over to a friend's house to help plan a baby shower. D10 filling me in on what was going on. D10 wanted to know what I was doing? I told her I'm getting ready to go for a walk. She asked "with who?" I said myself.
The phone was on conference so everything we were talking about could be heard by W.
D10 said W also bought some ab machine off an infomercial. One of the big signs of depression the past three years was W going from a size 4 to size 16. Each time she gained a size, she'd buy a whole new wardrobe. I'd mention going to the Y together or running or anything, but each time I did she took it as a slam against her weight. That plus the money she was spending really added to the stress.
I don't know if W wanted me to know or not. Is it a good sign that she's trying to get back in shape? It's bad of me, but I'm torn. I'd love her to get back in shape and feel better about herself. But is she getting back in shape to attract others? That would just kills me.
After each girl was born, she worked herself back down to a size 4 and looked great. The first time was among the happiest times in our marriage because she did it by running and we'd do it together by putting D10 (then 1 and 2) in a jogging stroller.
They are going to an apple orchard. It's 70 degrees outside and a great day to do something like that. I need to get off this couch.
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