Yes..I know exh hurts alot. He just never makes decisions to get himself out of the hurt and seems to be digging his hole bigger.
This week has been crazy. He has been around quite a bit, but not on his assigned days. I have been letting him stop by on non visit days more often but he cancels on his regular days. Need to put a stop to that.
He has been more friendly and nice with me. Must be a motive.
I know...
Wednesday he sends a text asking if we want to spend the day with him on Saturday (today) I say not sure. Then he goes on to tell me he cannot make his child support this month because he had to pay the registration and penalities for his truck. What? There is nothing I can do about it. CSS won't touch it until he is 6 months behind. I can have my attorney write him a letter at $200. He offered to do yardwork at my house, but I don't need that! I have teenagers for that LOL! I need the money.
He just cancelled today saying he has a headache! Code for i just popped a bunch of pills or drank a few beers and there is no way I want you to see me now.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!