Can I save my marriage?

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So I need some help. Tonight is my H's work banquet. He asked me to go a few weeks ago, and brought it up twice since then. He also found our babysitter which I feel is a definite sign he wants me to be there. Now it is the one night a year that I ALWAYS have a great time. All my closest friends are there and its a great time. So I'm very excited to go have some fun and forget about things for a night. EXCEPT that H will be there. Now the last I talked to him was yesterday and it was a very cold conversation. He didn't bring up the banquet or anything. Well its today and the wives are all going to eat prior to the banquet then we are carpooling to the banquet afterwards. The only problem is I feel kind of scared. It is going to be filled with all the men and their wives and H and I. He hasn't brought it up since Halloween night, and I'm just nervous about going and how I should act around him or if I should even go.

One of my marriage problems that H stated to me was that when we went to functions he always felt the need to have to stay with me all night and that he couldn't go mingle and have fun cause he was too concerned about me getting mad for leaving me at the table. So I thought this would be a good night to do a 180. Make him feel like he doesn't have to be that person. And I can go and have a great time on my own.

Should I go?