GIMA, glad to hear the change in your M status. Moving forward is a good thing, has to be better than limboland.

I was reading a short article last week, an interview with Juliana Margulies. It wasn't about relationships specifically, but something she said struck me as being so true. Something to this effect and I am paraphrasing here "we spend all this time rehashing the past and rehearsing for the future."

Not sure about you or anyone else reading this, but truer words have never been spoken for me. I still play "what if?" way more than I should. If I could just put all that energy into myself and my boys instead of wondering how this and that are going to play out, I'd be making much more progress in a shorter period of time.

Sorry for the hijack.

BIM


BIM
M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

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