well i think I recovered ok. H called about an hour after that last post and I didn't pick up. He called both home and cell. Let it go. He was on his way home, so I just acted surprised and cheerful when he walked in the door, and I was keeping busy. I calmly informed H how I felt about his decision re: S. He explained his reasoning (S convinced him, apparently). I stood my ground calmly that we need to be on the same page. H agreed.
