You are right John. He said so, we should pick up from we were left off and KNOWING he loves me should be enough...
But it isnt. He doesnt want to work on us. He just wants me to accept him and be happy with he gives me. No trying from his side. No change. But what he offers is what he was giving me before the affair, not during out good times. Which is a dealbreaker for me. Plain and simple. K