Just change the plan, has he discussed his plans with you? Probably not.

He should see a woman at peace with the decision to separate who's looking forward with her life, confident and sassy (I hate that word but it's appropriate). One who's not hanging on to his word looking for a sign that he's still in love with her and wants to come back. Really it's the best and probably only option left. The softly softly approach is not working.

Remember your M may be over (but perhaps not) but your life sure ain't.


married 23 years
4 grown up kids