Gucci, your scenario is a good response for Sanderika's question. However, for me I get what you are saying and I don't think it needs further elaboration. (H's cake eating is having his ego stroked by my affirmation and knowing I still love him. There has been no physical intimacy since separation.)
My question remains "How do I progress from here?" Do I tell H that the 'game plan' has changed or do I just change the plan and let him discover it. I will see him this week at my D's school awards night. What difference in me should he see/sense?
