Not sure what to do

[bluerain]

I hope that you had fun tonight stu! Let the hotties ogle you!

I do think that you should go on as a single-ish man. That is what detaching is about. I dont mean that you should go out and date, but you should go on as a man who is okay, and who is going to be okay no matter what happens. You are setting an example for you kid(s) here, you can teach them great things about the value of personal strength and coping here, and more importantly about the value of marriage and family.

Why cant you move into a house without showers? You can go to the gym or the local pool to take showers. Im in Alaska, tons of people here dont have any plumbing!