Winner Winner. Chicken Dinner. $25K over 4 years is a drop in the bucket. Imagine how much you were paying when she lived with you. Maybe your wife was not high maintenance.
I know in my case, my wife always needed to go out for dinner. She needed to hire my brother and his wife to clean our house every 2 weeks even though I was able to help. I also bought her lots of things like diamonds and guns (what a combination ). She shopped compulsively. Basically, she was high maintenance.