Agreed on both accounts. Luckily, he seems clean when when around S5, so what else can I do?

I've decided that his choices are his own and I can't make myself crazy wondering what he's doing with his free time. 180 it is! Frankly, I told him just to have fun this weekend. - despite my suspicions. Do I really want to know what he's doing? Not really!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship