Can I save my marriage?

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Well we were discussing babysitting issues cause tomorrow night is the big banquet that I'm going to. So he arranged for his father to watch the boys overnight. So I had to call him to get all the details of time and stuff. This is his work banquet that he asked me to come to. So I can't start little contact until at least sunday, cause I'm going to see him all night tomorrow night.

The only reason I brought up the hockey was cause I had no idea what time he played. So I just asked for the time so I could bring S3 to watch. Its a tournament so he plays 3 games tomorrow. Just didn't know when. Wish I wouldn't have even bothered. Oh well

I agree I do have too much contact. Its getting worse and worse. After tomorrow night he takes the kids for four days. It will be the hardest thing I'll ever have to do, but I'm going to try to keep busy and limit my contact to "none" I trust the boys will be okay so I'm not even going to check in. Which is not in my nature. But I need to. That's why is probably pulling way back, he talks to me every single day. I'm giving him no reason to miss us or anything for that matter.