Today I called him to discuss babysitting issues for the big banquet tomorrow night and he was so cold to me. Didn't really care to talk to me, he was just different than he's been lately. And he was pretty much shooing me off the phone. I've been the one to end our conversations lately and now he's doing the same to me!
I think I also messed up today. I think I pursued. And I was so good at not pursuing! He plays hockey tomorrow in a tourny and I told him I was going to bring S3 by to watch a game, cause he loves watching daddy play hockey. He didn't really respond much than "ya". I totally wasn't doing it for me it was soley for my son as he loves watching H play. I think he saw it in a different way. So I've decided not to even go. I feel bad cause I went against the whole pursuing thing. Its bothering me now tonight. I was doing so good! Oh well can't go back and erase it, just gotta move on to tomorrow.
Well that is a good thing, i'm glad you have the right mindset about this.
