I am happy for you that W is at least considering MC. I hope this ends up being a step in the right direction for both of you. Just be careful not to set any expectations.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
That said, if you are dealing with a WAS who has one foot out the door, I think your first priority is getting the WAS to slow down. That's where acting "as if," GAL'ing and focusing on you come in. I think those are things that get you, and the WAS, to a place where the types of conversations I described can take place. Having those conversations too early would not be good.
I would luv to have non-R conversations with my H. But I know that currently, the timing is not right. How will I know when it is safe to start these type of talks? Any example inidicators you would care to share?
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
