The nicest thing that has happened is he did the H quiz of the 5LL's and funny enough his LL are the same as mine, WOA, QT and PT. It was lovely reading all the things he had answered with regard to loving me and I went through them smiling saying "mm good at that" "mm could work harder at that" etc which made him smile, the only one he laughed at was the washing the car one for me and said I had no chance lol! He has always washed my car for me. My only query is how do you fill someones love tank with their chosen LL, his is WOA when he doesnt believe that you think he's sexy etc and just remarks I want my eyes tested, or do you fill the QT and PT tanks and hope that levels out the WOA?
It doesn't work that way. They need to have each one met seperately.
Words of encouragement don't necessarily have to be about his appearance:
* Compliment him the next time he does housework or does some home repair * If he has a hobby, show interest in it * If he has a good day at work or gets a major project done, be supportive
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
