Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

Sometimes the shortest speeches are the most effective.

Ever wonder why my posts are so short?

No. I knew exactly why you're posts are so short.

I think what you have is perfect. Just preface it with a "I've been doing some thinking," and "I have decided that ..."

You are allowed to change your mind.

I am. I just seem to be doing a lot of that and it's obviously going to come across as yet more changing of my mind and / or indecisiveness.

I just wanted to make sure she knew the door was always open for her but it's time for her to face up to her responsibilities and the consequences of her actions.

As I said, I think this is exactly what she wants but I need to do this for me and my D regardless.