Originally Posted By: sandi2
Puppy's your man there. But, to refresh my mind, did she actually "ask" you to give your word about not stopping the contact.....or did you just tell her that anyway?


I gave my word. She never asked me to.

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I think I remember her being more concerned about not being able to continue to see your D than having contact with you. So, if that is the case, would you stop her from seeing her stepdaughter? Just wondering.


I and my D's mum are concerned that my D would be introduced to the OM. If you read one of the posts back (not sure how far) but my W sent texts to my D's mum saying that my D would "have to meet the other man someday" and could my W and the OM "come around and discuss my D with her". Basically, to put things in a nutshell, I don't trust my W and I said she wouldn't have unsupervised contact.

My W and I both agreed that we would build contact up from a few hours to a whole day as the last whole day we had didn't work.

My D is also very angry at my W and the OM for "breaking up our family" (my D is almost 9) so I'm not sure how healthy it is for her to continue it anyway.

Last edited by P17; 11/06/09 11:37 PM.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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