Puppy's your man there. But, to refresh my mind, did she actually "ask" you to give your word about not stopping the contact.....or did you just tell her that anyway?
I gave my word. She never asked me to.
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I think I remember her being more concerned about not being able to continue to see your D than having contact with you. So, if that is the case, would you stop her from seeing her stepdaughter? Just wondering.
I and my D's mum are concerned that my D would be introduced to the OM. If you read one of the posts back (not sure how far) but my W sent texts to my D's mum saying that my D would "have to meet the other man someday" and could my W and the OM "come around and discuss my D with her". Basically, to put things in a nutshell, I don't trust my W and I said she wouldn't have unsupervised contact.
My W and I both agreed that we would build contact up from a few hours to a whole day as the last whole day we had didn't work.
My D is also very angry at my W and the OM for "breaking up our family" (my D is almost 9) so I'm not sure how healthy it is for her to continue it anyway.
Last edited by P17; 11/06/0911:37 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"