I've suddenly found it remarkably simple to not only remove the ring, but to contact a divorce attorney and launch into ending the marriage myself. I just learned that she's left me for the same deadbeat loser that she was with the first time she did this. That's it. I'm done. I want nothing to do with this utterly diseased woman anymore. She can have him and he her. They're a match made in fricking heaven.
I'm moving forward as quickly as I can now, and it feels GREAT! For the first time in YEARS, I'm not in limbo! I know precisely what I'm doing, and am doing it as aggressively as I can!
Hopefully, I'll be able to file the bankruptcy within a week, and immediately after that, I'll draw the divorce papers and have her served. I want custody of our kids (D-11 and S-17), and as long as she's living for free in the spare bedroom of a convicted felon, she doesn't have a leg to stand on.
I'm going to legally gut her like the pig she is, and leave her emotionally dismembered this time. She has no idea that a speeding locomotive is going to be smacking her right square in the face in the next few weeks! I'd PAY to see the look on her face when she greets the sheriff at her place of work, and opens up that packet!
Sorry...don't mean to spoil others' wishes for reconciliation and I wish those of you who truly want their marriages to work all the best with your efforts, but I couldn't help but show off my newfound joy in FINALLY seeing light at the end of the tunnel, after 8 long, dreadful, miserable, loveless years with a very sick woman!
By next spring or early summer, I intend to move about 30 miles away and closer to work, with my daughter, and will start a brand new life with her there, without the sick one. I'm going to stash money away over the next several months, so that I can go craigslist shopping for "new" furniture and furnishings, and leave the garbage behind for her.
My D and I are going to have a terrific life. I'll make plenty of money to support us both very comfortably, we'll be living with easy access to some fantastic attractions, such as museums, two zoos, art galleries, live theaters, etc., and I'll use the child support money that my stupid WAW pays to set up a 529 fund for her college education!
And, at some point down the line, God be willing, I'll suddenly and without warning meet the most beautiful, loving woman in the world, and will fall madly in love with her and her with me, right about the time my WAW is heading to prison for her third DUI!
