Doesn't matter, (your trying to mind read again). Simple test - If I do this will it help me reach my goals? Do the right thing and don't worry about what everybody else thinks.
Listen to what you say.....
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I am sure I could say it was for counseling to deal with the hurt and disappointment from him not coming home.
Is that the truth? You are trying to blame him. Sounds like you are saying, "well I wouldn't have had to get counseling if you didn't hurt me." Would that be productive? Help you reach your goals?
How about you do the DB coaching because you think it will help you. You would not do it for or because of him but because it's good for you.
I think the DB coach would be wise for you. It's your choice. Nobody is going to make you, you are a victim if someone makes you when really you have lots of opportunities.
Put the focus of your efforts on yourself. You only control your thoughts, actions and words. Be responsible for your own happiness. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
