Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Do not talk about the mediator, nor ask her how her feelings are. Talk about her job, your job, your joint interests, your family's logistics.


Okay got it perfect thanks.

Not much from her today to work. A couple of email about the kids only in our new town. Responded carefully and not too quickly.

One email she writes:

We are on the same page
We are good at solving problems together
We are good parents

This stuff is quiet confusing. Too bad we can't solve our problems together!! Oh well MAYBE in time.