The Affair is a relationship. It is, it is, it is, and it is. And like ANY relationship there is a grieving period when it is over. You want him to sing and dance that it is over, because that is how you feel. And that is not realistic. He is grieving...and THAT is good...it is over. You show yourself to be compassionate, you truely will be Kalni Sunshine.
I truely hate in all sense of word my W's old OM. I would water plants if he was on fire. But in truth, the deep down truth that I seldom acknowledge out loud, I am grateful that she had someone to confide in when she was at her worst...I am more grateful that he was dissposable.
Now as for you Kalni?
Are you familiar with the quaint American phrase:
Sh it or get off the pot?
All in or all out.
: )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
