Yea, I hear ya. I'm currently living with my brother, which really helps, but after almost a year I've had about enough. So, I'm moving to another city and getting a fresh start. Luckily, I made out pretty well in the divorce as the XW recieved the lion's share of the debt. I still have quite a bit of debt, though and it's making life quite a struggle.

We sold our home in the divorce, but we had very little equity.
So basically nothing got paid off. I'll be lucky when I come out in a better finanacial position to have credit good enough to buy another home as the wife is destroying it.

I have very little furniture now myself. I'm getting rather creative.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08