Yea, I hear ya. I'm currently living with my brother, which really helps, but after almost a year I've had about enough. So, I'm moving to another city and getting a fresh start. Luckily, I made out pretty well in the divorce as the XW recieved the lion's share of the debt. I still have quite a bit of debt, though and it's making life quite a struggle.
We sold our home in the divorce, but we had very little equity. So basically nothing got paid off. I'll be lucky when I come out in a better finanacial position to have credit good enough to buy another home as the wife is destroying it.
I have very little furniture now myself. I'm getting rather creative.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08