A drawback (and protection/blessing) with me not snooping and/or looking at any cell phone records the entire time since the bomb, I have never really known who he is texting or who is texting him unless he tells me point blank while he is doing it or after the fact. And he has never said, it's OW when texting or on phone. Has only told me about things from his brother / friends / coworkers.
So, last night during movie could have been anyone, OW, his brother, people from work, or other friends. The movie was done by 10:00. Only reason I mention this, is that pattern for OW, from what I have noticed and my best guess/assumptions is that she gets off work between 10-11, as that's when the normal time for the "ding-ding" chime will come in on his phone and he texts back a few times and then phone will ring and he will go to his room to take the call. Lately, the calls haven't been happening as much, unless they are just taking place after he goes to bed in his room. Who knows?
I would like to put a boundary in place for the texting, but don't really know how to go about it and/or approach it. Any suggestions? Tuesday night he respected my boundary with a phone call he was on - I came home to him on phone in the office. I went to my room. Came back out and he had gone to his room and shut the door.
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Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
