Yes he is. The way I would try if I had broken his...sunglasses. I can see the difference, but I dont feel it often.

I need a serious talk. Lately, I've been putting my wants/limits again in a lethargic state, waiting for him to do something dramatic, something emotional, something meaningful. Alas, he is trying in a very...quiet way.

I dont want to bore you with details. Suffice to say, he is in a bad mood, not towards me, just sad and quiet. Could be work but I doubt it. I think he misses her. I cant be wondering about things like that and he is no position to open up, share, talk. I cant do the talking for both of us, can I?

I haven't read yet an effort to reconcile from a remorseful husband that played out the way this is going. Which makes me believe, there is more happening I have no idea about. And that's something I am not accepting.

Granted assumptions are not good, I will try to express me, but granted that my little voice NEVER makes mistakes of this kind, I am totally alert and careful.
K


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S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009