I googled it, and plan on reading up more on it. Mirroring, Validation and Empathy - all things I have never done. It had ALWAYS been who is more to blame. Me repeating OVER AND OVER everything I think he did to get us where we are and him doing the same to me. Neither of us ever backing down.
Right now he wants space and a break from talking about it. He is convinced we would never work and he cannot forgive. Would it be a good idea to try talking now? Or wait for opportunities to arise and handle them better this time?
I plan on truly trying to forgive him for the past 5 years!!!
Me - 33 Him - 37 2 Children (D-8, S-5) Married 04/28/01 He Left 12/03/05 Updated Story