Hi Bunny. I'm not on here much anymore, but I keep you in my prayers!
I'm glad you have made the decision to finally move out. I pray for you to stay free of his manipulations. And frankly...him sending you a link for what he wants for his birthday is totally obnoxious at this point. I think it would ridiculous to buy him those tickets. He doesn't deserve to be asking you for gifts or to be receiving them.
Practically speaking, don't send mixed messages.
I'm glad you have plenty of good folks looking out for you here.