Actually, I am a fan on FaceBook. I tried to get one of the signed books they gave away recently.
Most of my friends know that we're having issues, at least. If any of my friends were to ask me, I'd tell them that MWD does books about more than fighting a divorce. (Which is true.)
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
True, but aren't we supposed to be keeping this under wraps from our spouses? My H is my FB friend.
Yes, but MWD does books on more than just divorce.
I have 3 or 4 different books on my desk -- His Needs Her Needs, The Five Love Languages, etc. -- my wife just never sees the ones from MWD.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
My H would look up every detail of MWD and zero right in on DB.
If that's true, then don't become a fan. No point in borrowing trouble.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
There is also a secret group on FB that your friends can't see. The alt univ is a brave new world.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Well, first off, at least you are getting some... lol. What I wouldn't give to get some from my W.
2X4, no ML, no R talk. You gave him what he wanted physically, and then you started in with the R talk. I'm not saying ML is easy to walk away from. Lord knows if my W ML to me, I couldn't resist it. But you can't be having the R talk. That tells him you are still stuck on him and can't be independent without him. He see's neediness. Right now he just got to have his cake and eat it to by you ML with him. He isn't having to miss from you what he wants. You gotta stand your ground. Make him earn it by showing you that he is interested in reconciling with you.
I wish I could be more serious on the 2X4s. Hopefully the ML was good. I envy that. lol.
K4D
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I tried to get one of the signed books they gave away recently.