Grief...haha. That's a nice way to put it..hehe. I value your opinion and your advice. I'm just kidding. I know I'm a hard case. But after my conversation with H today. I feel like letting go is my next step. Downhill from last week that's for sure.
Believe me... once you find the courage to step off of that rollercoaster, you'll wonder why you didn't before.
Originally Posted By: britt54
But you on the other had are doing amazing and you deserve it. I may not know you but the if the person you are on here reflects any type of character you are in life then that is why you are where you are today and why you're W is where she is at. She has realized what she has and doesn't want to lose it. Good luck.
Those are incredibly nice things to say.
I'd like to think that my wife is responding to the "new me"; I know she told a (mutual) friend that she has been less frustrated with me of late.
Only time will tell if that translates into a desire to work things out. She has said that she wants to, but she may not be ready to take that step yet; I know she's pulled back a couple of times recently.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement