Venting and rather irate. First off...the wife went out with the ex-gf and work friend last night. Comes home in a bad mood and I find out later she had a breakdown at the bar. It seems so funny to me that EVERY time she hangs out with these people she ends up in a bad mood. She obviously doesn't see it...but ever time it happens. I am sure GF and worker friend were both supporting her need to get out of the house because the house, kids, and I are obviously the cause of all her problems.

Then today...clarification for story-yesterday I closed out a project that meant a check big enough to cover my operating expenses (not payroll...just bills) for the rest of the year and then a few grand more. So I talked with my partner and we decided to purchase some software that we have needed (I have been using pirated software for the last year). So I purchased the software and installed this morning. The wife calls up complaining how I am wasting money on the software and that is giving up WHAT SHE WANTS to cover the bills. This is software I need to run my company and have been using illegally for a year. I have put off buying the software more than once to make sure that we had pay money. This time I looked at the next two months and said "Company bills are covered...so everything else can go right into pay".

I really want to remind her of the $1000's she has spent in the bars, restaurants, movies, on day trips, on dating, and on romantic getaways with her ex-gf....funny how when she was spending money on that stuff she had little problem doing it.


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