And this is why they are so awesome.

His wife has been divorced once before, and she is impressed with how well we seem to be doing at this point. She is the one counseling me to have patience, and they are both willing to let me yammer on when I need it. (To be honest, as much grief as I've been giving britt54 about not being to let go? There are times when I'm almost as bad.)

She and my wife were really good friends for a while, and she has been able to provide me with some insight on where my wife is coming from.

I have literally told both of them that they don't know how much their being there means to me, and that if we can work this out I will owe them a debt I can never repay. But they're cool with that. smile


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."