Sorry to hear that. Didn't know you had a special friend. Hope you can still get that back. In your case, I think it would have served as a wake up call to your W because she's been very emotional and has always looked at you to validate her sucky life.
If you had shown someone else was interested in you but not really be in your face about it, I think she would have come back.
But if you're like me, you probably would have felt like a hypocrite for doing so. Tough thing to juggle but I think if it helps you one way or the other, you should do it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.