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GAG,

That's a great idea about asking for MC references from retro group. I do have my IC working on references as well.


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GIMA,

When the time is right, would you consider sharing what you think prompted your W to be open to MC? Your insights might help some folks reading here.

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Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
GIMA,

When the time is right, would you consider sharing what you think prompted your W to be open to MC? Your insights might help some folks reading here.

Thanks!

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GAG,

I truly do not know what brought this about. I wish I knew b/c I would happily share that here to help everyone else.

It could have been anything and nothing. W said she thought I did not care for her. I was surprised by that and told her that was not the case. Whether that had anything to do with it, I just don't know.

Maybe W is not as "done" as she said? Maybe she agreed to MC just to "show me" she doesn't love me anymore? I can't say.


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because you asked. Only one way out of limboland.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
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because you asked. Only one way out of limboland.


There you go.

I only wish I saw half as clearly as you, Coach.


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GIMA, interesting news, and it looks like your handling this. Keeping you in my thoughts, as you progress forward!


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Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
GIMA, interesting news, and it looks like your handling this. Keeping you in my thoughts, as you progress forward!


Thanks. Don't know where this will all end up. Will just have to see.


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That is actually a key thought. You don't know where things will end up, accepting that makes it easier to not wonder what the outcome may be.

Live in the moment, and not the future, as they say...

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Originally Posted By: iwantittowork
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Don't know where this will all end up.


That is actually a key thought. You don't know where things will end up, accepting that makes it easier to not wonder what the outcome may be.

Live in the moment, and not the future, as they say...

smile


Definitely worth remembering.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
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I truly do not know what brought this about.


because you asked. Only one way out of limboland.


Would you please clarify this? What was it that you asked? Did you ask her to go to MC? If so, do you remember how you presented that option to her?

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