Thanks for the dose of reality Jack.

I suppose I need to learn to just accept what she is saying, that she tried and all, and not respond in anyway with what I think. I forget that she doesn't care what I think right now. So a major backslide. Time will tell if it makes her move forward with things or not.

She wants to have the kids for Thanksgiving. I told her that would be fine. She also wants me to go visit my parents. That is not something I feel comfortable doing right now. I was planning on taking the week off and relaxing from the stresses of my paying job. I'll make sure to spend plenty of time outside of the house, but I won't let her choose where and when I take a "vacation".


Me: 43
W: 40
S10,S7
M12, T13+

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1