I think then from what you describe I may be ignoring her too much.
Am I wrong for not talking about this mediator and impending doom? Seems like that is not talking about the future
The attitude I am taking is we are moving now and need to do that first.
No more talk about the D bs until thats done.
Should I ask her how she feels and stuff or let her bring it up?
I am seeing positives from it but I want to keep it rolling in the right direction.
I have to admit my new attitude of detach with love and you make your decissions and live with the consequences is reallly helping make it throught the day.
Before when this would happen I was so depressed and sad but now it's "I'm moving forward would you like to come"?
